Copper has a higher hardness (370 MPa) vs. aluminium (167 MPa) on a Vicker's scale. I think copper would be used for higher torque applications. Aluminum deforms easier (seals with lower torque) but also galls easier. I had an aluminum seal ring pit on the sealing surface because the surface on the mating part had some roughness. Sure enough, that seal ring leaked as soon as it was installed. Where seal rings are used, mating surfaces must be very smooth.
I have bought several sealing rings from the Classic Center and I am not sure there is a definite pattern. Is there a compound you can put on the seal ring prior to installation that will increase the sealability?
Sorry couldn't be more help.