I finally got the car onto the ramps, then changed the bushings on both sides of the shift linkage, and after 5 trys, finally got it back on, and the car starts and shifts fine so far.
The problem I encountered was that the bushing is not symetrical. One side is smaller than the other side (ID) I did not know how they should be installed, one wen on small ID inward, the other small ID outward (since it was too dangerous to try to remove nbushing w/o breaking it. Which is correct?
This is the last time I put a car up on jacks or ramps in my garage. I just had it epoxy coated, and it was so slippery, the ramps kept on sliding down the garage floor until it hit the driveway!