I'm hoping to take my family to CA this year in order to tie in with a bit of work I'll be there to do. Unfortunately, we know v little about what to do and where.
Here's what we do know: there's 3 of us, with the third being 13 months old as I write. He's pretty robust and likes to be outside, especially with animals. We will probably land in San Francisco and head North. We like wine so would like to do a bit of the wine country thing. We would like to stay in small, pleasant and elegant family friendly guest houses/small hotels (in Europe they call these 'boutique hotels' in order to justify the absurd price). We would like to spend about 2 weeks in the US, heading North all the time; happy to go into Canada if worth it, but we don't want to do a driving holiday. (That comes in September, of course! And my son isn't great in cars for long periods).
We would like to spend a week by the coast somewhere and relax where there's things to see and good food to be eaten, but we're absolutely not into big beach resorts, huge hotels, organised fun, and all of that other mass market nonsense. We'd be happy to rent a house in a nice area, but I don't want to spend 2 weeks cooking for my team, so we'd like to stay in a hotel for part of the journey. I realise we'll have to hire a car, of course. We will also spend perhaps a day or so in SF, as my wife has never seen it.
So, my question if you're still reading, is...any advice, views, opinions on what to do/see/avoid and where to stay and not stay would be most welcome! Also, anyone who's done the wine country and stayed somewhere nice, please let me know also.
Many thanks,
James