Greg,
I had the same frustration as you!
The injector pump, injectors & CSV all overhauled by Gus at Pacific Fuel.
Cold starts are perfect, but hot starts as per your description.
However, i experimented with the throttle depressed and with many different scenarios (eg full, half, 3/4, etc) i found that 1/3 travel of the gas pedal on hot starts gives me a perfect start every time?!
Probably varies from car to car, but may be worth a try.
Good luck and don't sell!!!! It's all part of the "charm"
Rgds
Franjo