Thanks Joe.
I threaded an longer M6 bolt in the pivot, but could not drive it in any further (use reasonable but not head cracking force). I think the pivot far enough in to the head at other end, so I will go with an M12x1.5x30 plus a washer or two to make sure I stay under the 29mm it adds up to. Will put thread seal of course, and also sealant either side of the fuel line bracket. I think that should do it.
As per another post, I probably also had a leak from a non-level chain tensioner mount (manifold gasket in the way), and with this upper front bolt leak solved, hopefully that will be most of the big leaks stopped.
I do have one more question - there is an open threaded M10 hole on the lower left (looking at front of engine) at front of the engine next to crank. It is below the M10 bolt hole for the AC bracket. It is listed on a previous post (by jeffc280sl I think) as possible leak site - marked on attached pic. What is this for? it is open/unused on my engine - does it need to be capped with a bolt? probably not, it looks too close to the crank, but wanted to check thoughts.
[There is another open threaded bolt hole on the side on my engine (also marked on the pic), which is a missing stud that should have been an additional AC bracket support. The bracket is well supported anyway, but it also may have leaked oil - that one will be easy to address.]