Dear Ferro
For this project you mention, positive signal should be taken from the T50 terminal on your ignition tumbler switch as you want to activate this timed relay only when cranking your engine for a period of up to 3 seconds.
So my advise is the following:
Buy a “Bosch or Hella timed on” relay on amazon. Will give the link later. And the connections should be this:
Terminal 85 will go to the cabin where you will place a switch connected one end to ground and the other to the cable which goes to terminal 85 of the timed relay. By this way the system will be activated only when the switch is on the on position.
Terminal 86 needs a positive signal to activate the relay, so as you want the relay to act only during cranking, this lead should go to terminal T50 on your ignition tumbler. If your car is automatic, this signal can also be found on the engine compartment where the neutral/parking safety switch is located. The cable is purple in Colour. On manual transmission cars, look at the two major cold start mechanism relays, the signal goes there also.
Terminal 30, is the positive lead that is switched to activate the CSV at the intake manifold. This signal should be taken from a fused source only alive (powered) when the ignition switch is on the on position. So I recommend to take that positive signal from the fuse no.3 on your main fuse box. Do not take positive from battery, is not safe......
Terminal 87 is the output of the timed relay. That output is a positive signal and should be connected to the positive side of the CSV SELENOID. That valve has two terminals in some cars, to determine which is the positive side just make a continuity test between each pole and the ground. The terminal which gives continuity to ground should not be used. Use the other one.
This is the relay you should buy:
https://www.amazon.com/HELLA-996152131-0-900s-Delay-Control/dp/B003C508XO/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Hella+timed+on+relay&qid=1589321249&sr=8-1Regards
LP
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