Hi Rudy,
I had similar problems. Mine got fixed and it had to do with fuel delivery and not with the starting solenoid. I can help you identify the starting solenoid, but here is something I jsut posted for another member. It makes sense and is worth a shot before you start poking around and later cursing yourself for it, as I did.
So here it is...and it has worked for atleast 4-5 members on this site,
"I had the exact problem a while back. In my case the symptoms were similar and these were created by a clogged fuel pump or fuel filter. Let me explain! See what happens is that in our injected cars the fuel flows from the tank to the fuel pump through the fuel line to the engine. Any excess fuel is returned back through the return line. Now if the supply is scanty because of, either a blocked line (in line or return line) or a faulty pump, what begins to happen is that since there is little or no flow the fuel in the the lines begins to evaporate due to engine heat, thus choking the engine till it dies of fuel starvation. This is what was explained to me. Now to this end, I took off the fuel pump and looked into it where the fuel enters the pump (by the way, the fuel pump is underneath the car on the rear left side....I have a left hand drive). There was a lot of gunk there pressed up against the mesh. I took a marrow spoon and cleaned it out, put the pump back on and it worked like a charm. Then I got adventurous and took the fuel pump apart. Bad mistake. I managed to put it back together very easily but it just would not stop leaking. This led me to buy a new pump and that was expensive, but never had a problem since. So this is how it was explained to me and I am forwarding it to you. Maybe in your case this is not it at all, but a little trial n error never hurt anyone. Let me know how it goes...if this is the prob which I think it is because of the exact symptons, then you'll be just fine.
Also check the fuel filter. This is a typical fuel delivery prob, especially given that it happens when the engine is hot. This means that the trapped fuel in the lines is evaporating owing to engine heat."
Regards,
H
P.S: In the engine compartment where all the relays are on the left front fender, there is a relay in the earlier cars to help with starting. Is that what u are referring to? That has nothing to do with hot starting symptons. Anyhow just to tell you it is a black cylinderical casing.
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