Dear Mark:
Very very interesting your comments. I will take all of them in consideration.
As you may know I am not electrical engineer, but a Civil engineer with an Oil Refining master degree at FIP.
So my passion for car electrics came by chance, not because of my university background.
Back to the point, I consider this:
1. Placing the logical main traditional smart relay (because senses the RPM, T50 cranking signal and T15 ACC-on) next to the 12 pin connectors below the steering wheel. That because accessibility and because it’s easy to bring there all major signals required.
2. Use that main relay, which unfortunately is based on the traditional coil and electro-mechanical switching architecture, as signaling device to another SOLID STATE RELAY as you suggest made by HELLA, which will be the one that actually cuts energy to fuel pump. Will find the way to use the NORMALLY CLOSE 87a port, so that in the event the other intelligent relay fails, you will still have power on the fuel pump.
3. Have an Inertia switch in all the relay arrangement to cut ground to some of them…..
4. Regarding the voltage to fuel pump, yes the workaround will be a thicker feed cable, since car battery is too far away from it, to have any effect if we place the cut relay next to pump
Best regards
LP