"I have read that it is best to re torque the head after the car has been run to normal operating temp.
would it be bad to torque the head cold and then do the valves ?"
Matt, IMHO, it's probably a waste of time trying to adjust valves accurately until until the head bolts have been tightened w/ engine hot. I don't know what engine work you're doing, but if the head is off for instance, & you can't run it to get it hot, the procedure is quite a bit different. Briefly, in reassembly work, the head bolts are each tightened both sequentially & also in stages, I recall 4 stages ?, of specified increasing torques. Then valve clearances are then set cold & after the engine is running and has been a few miles ,maybe 100-200, the head bolts are retorqued "hot". The next morning, on a cold engine, the valve clearances are then checked & set as required. I am certainly not an expert here & there are many that are on our list. I hope they will chip in. If you're doing any thing very major, you're very courageous to do it w/o a shop manual/BBB unless considerably experienced. Good luck, -JP-