Ideally, the oil line stays in place and just unscrews at the gauge. The temperature wire (capillary) is usually the one that stays connected to the unit -- it is loosened at the block and pulled through the dash (carefully)...
When unhooking the oil-line, it is the smaller nut that turns, the large one stays connected to the temperature cluster unit. What I did was hold the large one (14mm) with one wrench and turn the other with a smaller wrench (10mm?). The trick is to turn it lefty-loosy as if you are facing the car from the front. Not sure if this helps.