One of the complaints about any aftermarket steering wheel is that the rim partially blocks the view of the instruments. That need not be. If you deal with Nardi or a stocking dealer instead of an ebay listing, , you can get one that closely approximates the diameter of the original wheel.
As for being too close to the "stalk", that's a function of the adapter hub. I had one that caused my fingers to rub on the stalk. replaced it with another, longer one and now have about 5cm clearance.
Personally, the "feel" of a wood rimmed wheel can't be beat. Warmer in winter, cooler in summer. And, (IMHO) it looks better.
Gus