You will also need to disconnect the two horn wires from the turn signal switch before you can remove it. On your 280 SL I agree that the large connector will pass through the metalwork of the steering column, but only if turned one way. After you get it out, look down (or up) through the space and you will see that one side is somewhat concave, while the other is convex. The back of the plug will need to face the concave side to fit back through.
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