I think that key to maintaining the servicabilty of the system is to replace the brake fluid regularly also, especially if the car isn't driven. Doing every 3 years or so will prevent the lines and hoses decaying from the inside. Good external care should prevent the outside of the hoses getting too bad.
As for the situation with the bleed valve, you could try soaking it with decent penetrating fluid, but at some point I think you're going to have to bite the bullet and risk it coming off. Brakes are fairly fundamental in the stop/go equation, and you'll want to ensure they're properly bled and safe.
A gunson easibleed is a good enough device to aid bleeding. I've used mine quite a bit and, whilst not brilliant, it does the job.