Thanks, all, for the information you've supplied. I've now attached the A-pillar piece, the one that "wraps" the A-pillar (item 47 in Alfred's picture - with 2.9x7mm screws as suggested by Jordan. That seems to work - I think (read on). Thank you, Alfred, for the pictures-- very useful.
To Eric's point of Mercedes rationalizing their parts -- that is true. I inquired of the Classic Center on 7982 003215 (I didn't have the part number - this is what they came back with - same as what Alfred listed). Now they are offering a $5 TORX replacement screw (to attach #80 to the A-pillar). Granted -- the weatherstripping that slides into the channel covers it but I just can't do that.
Related to that, when attaching trim piece #80 (Alfred's picture), the lens-head screws I used to attach the A-pillar chrome piece (#47) sit proud of the piece and I'm wondering if they should actually be flat head screws to allow for a flush fit of the weather stripping channel.
There is an outift here in Northern California, Global Metrics, in Belmont, (google it for contact info -- no website) that carries nothing but metric fasteners. They have silver, chromated and stainless. They can supply you with what you need but they only work off of measurements and type of head etc. Lots of restorers seem to use them.