Mr Kayvan,
Please share pictures of your car. The important thing is that this is your passion and not your livlihood (wasn't there a Harry Chapin song about that and a janitor who sang) so go and play with the colours and finishes you like. Your car is gorgeous. I love that colour.
I understand your pain with various competing interests for the $$. In the last month I just picked up a Zodiac inflatable boat with a few leaks, a boat motor that doesn't run, a Honda Goldwing that had a fire and hasn't run in 25 years and a hit and miss engine that hasn't run in 50+ years. Am I having fun - you bet - do I care if I have black instead of dark grey on the rocker panels - not one bit.
Show off your car, its beautiful.