Thanks for all your replies and advise on this topic;
I have been trying to find a solution to my problems with the input of this forum and from some friends and found out the following:
I hope it might help other people with similar problems.
I hooked up the carter ventilation (on the valve cover) to the intake manifold, so carter ventilation is helped by the vacuum of the engine.
The result is clean, brown oil on the dipstick (no mayonaise) and no more abnormal oil leakage!
It seems to be that the blow by on this engine is a bit high, causing high carterpressure when the engine was used under faster driving, causing the seals to leak sometimes.
Having the carter ventilation hooked up to the intake manifold (I used a T-joint in the brake booster-to-inlet-hose) solved 2 problems at the time.
Of course in an ideal world ,on a overhauled engine, an open breather tube connected to the L-shaped tube at the throttle body should be enough, but in my case it wasn't.
-The compression of the engine is still great, performance (measured Horsepower) is very good and the car drives very well!
For the remaining problem; The oil level of the IP rises very slowly but I just refresh the oil once every while and it works fine.
Hopefully this case helps other people as well; sometimes a simple fix can save a lot of time and money. (thanks to this forum)
I drove the car on LPG, over 3500 km in the last month and it consumes 1 litre on 7.5km on average.. (It is a great vacation car now, without any leaks or mayonaise.....)
Thanks for all your help.