Michael,
the correctly shaped screw was on my 230SL but I just added it into the bucket with other small parts that needed re-schroming. Didn't know at the time that they should be more "matte" steel. In any case, I have no regrets because I do like bling in a 230SL.
The generic ones are available in Germany from many hardware supply companies and lots of eBay vendors sell them.
However, we had a discussion a number of years ago and some owners claimed that the straight shaped bolts were actually used on 280SL models. Next time I am at Motoringinvestements I'll ask Brian what he has seen on original cars.
Addition:
The situation is actually a bit more murky.
The p/n for the thumb screw is: 000464 00600 = DIN 464 / Surface: DBL 8451-22 =
"high polish galvanized, chrome-coloured passivation, can also be used instead of chromium-plating, if required".
As to the shape of DIN 464 what one finds now are almost always straight screws without concave indentations. This may be a manufacturing simplification or evolution of the DIN standard.
The sketch below shows the contour of current DIN 464 and the related DIN 465 and DIN 466 screws. Even the latter ones are now available mostly with straight cylinders.
The good news is that occasionally one can still find a DIN 464 screw with concave indentations; see:
http://www.ebay.de/itm/290918807685