How did you read all of the posts and come to that conclusion?!
It's easiest to lift from the central member as sown in the most recently posted picture, then place axle stands under the rails as shown in the photo of John's red car. The shocks will take the strain.
When I had my car on stands for months to replace the diff this year, I ran two large planks down the sides of the car and put the stands under them to spread the load and to get some real height. I also put some supports (more wood) under the front wheels to reduce the strain on any suspension parts on the front. There's a photo of that, I think, on my rear diff post.
Edit. Found the pics here:
http://www.sl113.org/forums/index.php?topic=18228.50 I had then benefit of using a professional floor jack, which can get some serious height. I used this set up because the car was off the ground for a long time due to the time it took to do this work,and the fact that I needed the car to be really stable due to the need to be fairly robust with the car when doing various tasks. The pics don't quite show the final set up, but are close. Like I said, I put wood under the front wheels.