After replacing my after-market tach cable with an MB cable ($209), I still had the same problem: an abrupt drop of rpms to below my normal idle when getting out of gear after high-speed driving or rapid acceleration.
For some reason, it felt to me like some sort of fuel problem. For whatever reason, I thought it might be a pressure problem occurring in the lines AFTER the pump.
I thought it might be a problem with the fuel outlet valve on the FIP or somehow with the fuel damper. I went for the fuel damper even though some of the info on the forum indicates that the fuel damper if basically for noise reduction. However, there was some info that its purpose is to smooth out rapid fuel pressure changes.
Anyway, this is what my damper diaphragm looked like, obviously not able to function properly with that fold in it.
I replaced the diaphragm using the method described on the forum to pre-tension the spring, and voila! The difference is dramatic, with the rpms settling down slowly to normal idle with the throttle damper no matter how the car is driven.
So, it appears that the fuel damper is needed to maintain a satisfactory "back" pressure (pressure AFTER the FIP) during times of high fuel use by the FIP.