I use 10w40/full synthetic with zinc additives on my rebuilt engine: no problems, zero consumption between oil changes. That said, for having been there myself when I bought my car a few years ago, I can completely relate to how you feel. In the end, given how much care we give our cars, and the thorough frequency at which we change our oil, any of the advice given above will work perfectly, as the suggestions given all specify oil that is compatible with the specific requirements of our engines. More fluid modern 0wxx or 5wxx grade oils might lack the film thickness required or zinc content. Stick to the advice, frequent changes, resist over-revving the engine until it is warm and you and your camshaft will remain best pals!