Functionally speaking, the larger OD nut will give you more torque when you go to take it off or put it on. To me, that is important as long as it has enough clearance around it to fit. And it will have more surface area to tighten up against whatever it is snugging up.
I'd use the left one, no question. Not sure which is original. I would shy away from the threaded spark plug end because it is both small in diameter and is smooth. You won't get much of a grip on that. This is where function should triumph over form.