Shvegel,
Thank you so much for your kind attention and advise!
I removed the old vinyl, so painting it no longer works. Besides, it had a couple of scratches and holes. There are ways to fix that, but I decided to go for the new vinyl - you can repeat application a many times as required, so sooner or later I will get there. But the paints such as the one you used are just great - I also used them a couple of times, not on the Pagoda.
Rivets - thank you, I found very similar ones, good you are confirming how they should look like. Yes, you need 2 pieces, but you find a bag of 1000 and it is for $2 - what do you do?
I think I need pliers for crimping the rivet. I have the front bow glued to fabric, will need to set the rivets somehow, probably easier with pliers than punch.
I found the screw and its washer (the one that is visible outside) at Mercedes - they are still there for a reasonable price.
Where I am at: I have the front cross member removed, cleaned and re-painted. I have fabricated shims that go between this cross-member and the lateral frame members (it is all held by 3 screws on each side) - to gain some reduction of distance to the window frame (I do not want to move the soft top too much forward as I will run into trouble with the rear bow anchor stud, I am at maximum of adjustment there). When I tried the assembled frame, the V elbows over the windows disappeared, so I guess I am on the right track.
I am also replacing the straps and side rubbers. For strap replacement I had to detach soft top cloth form frame, but I will try to do it with just ungluing one cross bow, the front one.
So now - I need to clean the fabric after old side rubbers, fix a couple of mechanical topics with the frame, lubricate hinges a bit (dry lube, I guess), attach front cross member, apply vinyl, attach the straps, glue the rubbers and re-fit the fabric. I am waiting for the vinyl from cabrio.de.
I will try to glue on the side rubbers folding a bit the soft top cloth as it is folding while the soft top is put in its bay - maybe this way I will avoid that the rubbers (no matter from which supplier) will crack in places where they fold outwards.
In bold just to call out the question form the body of the post:
Do you know the type of nut that is used for holding the side wires? I have the big washer from Mercedes, I have the washer with claws, I do not have the nuts. They have A 113... PN, so they may not be just regular hex nuts....
Any chance for a picture? (I know the pictures we have on forum, but they show a regular nut - not sure if it is correct)