Dimitri, There are lots of reasons why our cars can run poorly. More often than not, it is a mixture or linkage problem.
For timing, use a 27mm socket on the bolt on the front of the crank to turn the engine manually. When you get the crank balancer cleaned off and can see the marks, paint a white line on the zero line, it will help immensely when setting the timing. If you do a search on this site, there are some great threads about timing and fuel. Real experts have written out thorough explanations of setting the timing, dwell, linkage and mixture. It's a re-iterative process that just takes time.
As to the dwell changing, it could be your meter or connection. If not, it could be that you didn't have the points as tighened down as you thought, or possibly the pad wore down quickly. I am distinctly unimpressed with the quality of point sets that Daimler is foisting upon us these days.
Ray
'68 280SL 4-spd Coupe