Craig,
The ball stud has two sets of threads that have a slight offset, which is how the friction is created that makes the stud keep its position once adjusted. Over time, with repeated adjustment, the threads will wear and the stud will loosen, which is what has happened to you. Replace the stud and you will fix this. Check the others, as it is reasonable to assume that if one is bad others may be also. The ball stud should be really hard to turn, sometimes I have to remove the rocker and put a socket on one or two to get them started, mine are new and have only been adjusted twice.
Sounds like you may also have to replace the crown and retainer on the offending valve.
Glad you made it home OK!
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'64 230sl, fully sorted out...ooops, spoke too soon