There is a switch and cam inside the wiper motor that stops the motor at the same "parked" position when the switch is shut off, Pin #4 on the wiper motor plug should have power all the time when the ignition is switched on, number 1 should be getting power from the wiper relay when it is switched on. The relay turns the motor on and off, but doesn't controll the parking function.
This is one of those jobs that I know I did 30 years ago, but I just dont rembemer the details. The parking switch from what I remember is inside the motor gear train, and the motor needs to be removed and disassembled to get acess to it.
Al