So what model was this car and how much was it? Nothing you describe would make it that bad but as I said earlier it would depend on the condition relative to the price. We have some sort of idea of what it looked like but not the price.
Dan, the car was presented for sale by it's 4th owner and the asking price was $38K. Indicated mileage was above 60K miles although there were no service or repair records to prove this, just a couple of receipts for oil changes dating back no more than two years. You may believe what I described would not make it that bad, unfortunately you were not able to see the car in person to judge for yourself.
This isn't a matter of personal preference - the 5 speed car will always be worth more than the same exact car with a 4 speed or auto. If Mike's car was a 5 speed it would definitely be more than it already is and it's a top notch car right now.
This is where I believe we all agree. A 5 speed car is worth more than a 4 speed or an auto, no questions asked - this goes beyond prefference.
I'm simply stating facts here. It better be a complete piece of junk with a huge price before you walk away from it.
Here however, is where I do not agree with your way of seeing things. The statement above may make perfect sense for you and it is completely understandable... yet, I just don't think the same way you do. It is clear for me what I choose to walk away from and why.
To put it in perspective I'll venture using an analogy: I believe most of us can say we like ALL the models portrayed in a Victoria Secret catalog. Still there will be some who will preffer them blonds others brunettes, ones may like them with "natural attributes" while others preffer "aftermarket enhancements", same can be said for height, waist, eye color, etc, etc.
Let's suppose we can compare these women to our cars (female readers: please do not let this comparison offend you... it's only for illustrative purposes), and that we could compare our car's values to their salary as models or supermodels. Well, there will be more expensive cars and like we said before, the 5 speeds will be at the top of the price list... there will also be models that are paid a few $$$ more for their performances than others. There are measurable factors affecting the values of the cars (let's call these the "hard" factors) and un-measurable factors (we'll call these "soft" factors) like color prefferences for instance.
Now, is it possible that you'd accept that all values are determined by a combination of hard and soft factors? This would mean that the value of a car is not only determined by the factory equipment, optionals and mileage for example, but also by the prefferences of the public that is willing to buy one. Does this make sense to you?
If this were to make sense for you, then, how could you determine which model (car or female) would you be willing to pay for and how much would you shell out??? Let me answer this one for you: You'd have to weigh in your hard and soft factors, then look among what is available in the market and check how much "hard factors" your checkbook can afford. Only then will you make your decision.
Now, earlier on you said that in these type of cars you do not "just walk away because you do not like the color". That is a statement based on a soft factor, thus showing us your prefference is to priviliege hard factors such as a 5 speed over softer ones, such as color... hang on, almost finished here.
Would you be able to determine what are the hard and soft factors that attract you to any particular woman? If so, all you have to do to be able to understand the way I see or think about these things (like I said before, I understand your way of thinking... it just so seems you do not understand mine) is relate your way of choosing women to my way of choosing an SL. As I do not plan to "pimp" my SL -this means that I do not pretend to profit from it- I am able to base my selection on many more of the soft factors than the hard ones... this basically means that can actually I preffer to chose my car based on the paint color or the interior rather than sticking with a color I do not like but a transmission that is in fact, much more desirable.
At the end of the day, that is exactly what the statement "Vive la difference" means...
Regards,
Andres G