John,
Sounds like you are having way too much fun. Here is some of my experience on the driveshaft, flex disk and trans seal:
The seal is easily replaced once the trans rear flange is off. The flange just pulls off when the nut is removed. The seal is not available as a separate piece, but comes in the complete trans gasket set. Or, a local bearing and seal shop can probably match it up, but slightly thinner (original is 10 mm thick, replacement I found was 9 mm, prolly would have worked, but I got the gasket set instead). Be careful when prying out the old seal, it's easy to damage the surrounding metal. Knock the new one in until it's flush with the rear face of the trans.
Getting the trans flange off requires a pin socket to match the nut inside the flange. Punch back the locking tabs, then remove nut. You may find it loose already, or might be able to use a punch to knock it out. You can also use a punch to knock it in, but a pin socket is more fun/less stress. Use a new locking ring.
One way of making a homemade pin nut socket can be found here:
http://pagoda113.com/6/ubb.x?a=tpc&s=3846000021&f=3296041521&m=328609527Alternately, Samstag can probably sell you one.
On the flex disk, I have a personal rule: whenever the flex disk is unbolted, replace it and the nuts and bolts, no matter how new it is. If any of the bolts come loose, they will chew up the driveshaft flange, the trans flange, or both. The disk kit is $90-100, but that's a lot cheaper than a replacement driveshaft (around $450). Also, torque the bolts to spec.
Don't know if you can find a shop to replace your u-joints, and I'm not sure the original u-joints are even available. If you feel they are bad, you may be stuck with getting a replacement driveshaft. I got mine from Driveline Service in Portland, OR. There is at least one other place that sells them, check in Hemmings. The good thing about the one I got from Driveline Service is that the u-joints they use are replaceable, plus it includes a new center bearing.
Good luck, and thanks for all the postings on your project!
George Davis
'69 280 SL Euro manual