Hello gimp,
Most likely if your engine is that sensitive( .002" to difference in gap), something else is borderline. I would take an ohm meter and check your ignition wires and ends. Don't forget to check the coil wire. A closer gao means less resistance, but a cooler spark. As the gap increases, your ignition must be strong enough to overcome the resistance of a wider gap.
A lot of techs use up to .035". Myself, I have always used .028". In the long run, it is what works best for your engine. Ignition coils, ballast resistors, spark plug makes, gaps and heat range, ignition wires, and resistor ends all make a difference in the ignition systems. Many of these items have been altered or changed over the years in many of these engines.