My '68 W111 early auto gear box shifts more firm than an American trans of the era, but it should not be harsh. There are many things that can effect the shift quality to name a few:
- Throttle linkage set up. If the venturi is open by the slightest when the linkage at idle, it will mess up the shift points. See the Linkage tour here on this site.
- The double acting solenoid. Tells trans if at idle (low pressure), driving rpm (medium pressure) or kick down (high pressure). There are two switches; idle switch on the venturi and the kickdown on the firewall and under the pedal which activate the double acting solenoid. The solenoid also has adjusting turnbuckles.
- Finally, you can adjust the vacuum modulator. I suggest you take quite a bit of time to research all of the functions that can effect the trans shift quality before you look at just the modulator.
I know this because the first two items above on my car were totally set wrong and until I straightened them out, the trans would always shift badly.