The housings are sheet metal - zinc plated.
You can buff-polish them to some extend but as you mentioned - the lettering will wipe off.
The relays are pretty easily to come by - used.
On the other hand you can easily unplug them from the wiring harness; usually there is no problem with breaking the contacts or so. Just pull the plug carefully off from underneath, then you can unscrew the relay fropm the bracket.
If you want to go crazy (what I can understand) you can then pry the housing/cap off the relay chassis (bottom) with the help of a screw driver and have the housing newly zinc plated; but with silver color, not gold!
Then you can place on the lettering with the decals that another member here sells (is it Wheeler?).
Nice thing, and looks beautiful, but sadly the lettering/printing decals are not available for the early black relays which have the white lettering ...
:'(
Good luck!
Achim