Having gone through a break up over 30 years ago I know what it's like. I wandered around for 9 years after that until I met my wife of 20 years now and with 4 grandchildren, life is fairly normal for us. Through all of this I had my cars, my music, and a couple of good friends. I didn't have then what we have here today - close buddies from distant places from all over the world which would have made a difference for me at that time, I'm sure. I know that after I had major surgery in 2006, the best wishes of this group was something I won't ever forget.
I think divorce might actually worse than death. When your partner dies you know you won't be seeing them again ( relative to your faith ) but when you split up you know you will very likely see them many times again and for some that can be
very difficult if it wasn't something you wanted.
Good to see you on the mend and back at your cars.