Dan,
you assume that because you and I did not attend the same events... we are not members of the same club. With all respect, but that is a load of crap. You are a member of the same club, that I am a member of. Regardless of whether we met in real life or not. I know that if you are ever in the Netherlands, I will invite you to my house, feed you and provide you with drinks, and we'll have a great time. Precisely because we are members of the same club.
I've come to visit people I met through this Internet forum, all around the world, a number of times. I've seen their cars... even driven them. I've visited their houses etc. Others have visited me, stayed here, ate here, and we had fun and a great time.
I think that I've met over 80 people (and yes, that's just over 12% of the Full Membership) in real life. I won't mention names but those who know me know... and I'm sure feel the same about the club. I know others amongst us value their virtual connections as much as I do, and also value the real life connections.
Location and life visits is just one thing. I know of many members whose day is not complete without checking the forum, reading all the new messages and keeping up. They enjoy the virtual company almost as much as life company.
So stop being grumpy, and accept that the club is successful. Why do you always have to present such a negative view?
Peter