Gary,
Yes, the pics in my link are indeed of the correct and incorrect gasket, with the dirty one being the correct one. That was a very obvious "oh, bugger" moment yesterday afternoon when I took both manifolds off. If I'd been slightly quicker off the mark I'd have realised this having looked at my replacement manifolds, but there we are. the correct gasket will be here tomorrow. The gasket that came off would probably have been OK, but for 10 euros and a 24h wait it was probably better to use a new one.
jedwards, on top of the washers, you'll also need 2 crush seals for the downpipe to manifold union. You'll see JA17's comments on my thread.
Hope that helps.