I fixed the problem. One of the useful items in the technical manual on this site for this problem was this thread:
http://www.sl113.org/forums/index.php?topic=11100.msg74187#msg74187On reply 20, there's some pictures of the switch taken apart and the last shot shows where the problem was for mine. There are two holes in the fiber board, each with two little plastic rods (not shown) which push on the copper at the hole bottoms seen in the picture. Those copper bottoms in the holes are the switches for the headlight flasher (near center) and the windshield washer (near top of fiber board).
For my switch, the headlight copper got so hot, it melted the little rod until it was too short to actuate the switch with the turn signal stalk pulled toward the driver. I made a new one out of plastic. It must be made with an insulator, as the rod touches the switch copper at one end (12V) and the turn signal stalk (ground) at its other end.
That new one melted, with only a few flashes. Resistance for my contacts turns out to be 0 with a hard pull, but 1 to 2 ohms with light pulls on the stalk. The headlight current goes through that switch, so that's whats melting the rod. I could see no way to clean the contacts for that headlight switch.
I wanted to make a glass rod, but did not know how. So I made one with the hardwood handle of a tiny paint brush, cutting it down to correct size with sandpaper and a drill.
It is in the car, and all is working. I am now determined to only flash with firm pressure, with zero ohms hopefully, and very quick flashes, so the heat does not build up if it's a bad day and resistance is high. So far it is doing well.
Thanks for the help mates,
Ron