Replace ALL of the gears.
Oil pump is easy to change when the engine is in the car so strip it, inspect it, if you think it looks good re-use it and then observe oil pressure when the engine is running again. If it's low or the pump is noisy (you can hear it resonating through the sump) then you can change it then.
I do not use silicone, I use welseal.
Ball studs are €100 each, you want to hope yours are still round.
You will definitely want valve guides & seals.
Cam grinding costs 50% of the price of a new cam which, to me at least, isn't a wide enough margin to warrant the risks.
So, new cam and rockers. (I may be able to save you a few quid on those, it depends on what discount you're getting from mercs). (oops, I see it's too late for that).
Be sure to check small ends and do them if nec.
Cam towers/bearings can be re-used IF THERE'S NO SCORING TO THE BEARING SURFACE OF THE OLD CAM, otherwise you'll have to replace them.
It is, as Dan says, a good idea to have the IP o/hauled but I think you mentioned already that you've sent it off to the USA to get done.
Be sure to strip and clean the cold start injector, they're always blocked.
Check your throttle butterfly for bearing wear.
Have everything balanced. I always have it done to a tolerance of 0.1g (factory standard was 5g!) and makes a very noticeable difference.