I think I have the solution which has been discovered on my car and tested on one other with positive results. I tried everything for a period of 20 years, filter, valve body, modulation presssure etc. My problem turned out to be an oil passage pin in the drive to the centrifugal step pressure converter at the rear end of the gear box. This pin had slipped slightly 4mm but enough to block one of the passage-ways to give exactly your symptoms. Let me know how practical you are or if you intend to give it to a transmission shop ?
Can be checked with transmission in car but entails taking rea end off. I have photos and intend to create a section in the tech manual but my computer skills are not great.
If you are interested I can send instructions via direct mail