THanks Joe!
I cleaned up the insides of the relay and now I got power to the CSV!
Interesting when I bench tested the relay, seemed fine, but when I had the cover off, but connected the car and started it, it SOMETIMES lit up the CSV, but most of the time not.
So after spraying a bunch of electrical cleaner on there, seems now much more consistent.
QUESTION: how long cranking is it typical before the engine fires? Still seems like on the 1st try, it takes about 5-6s. It fires, coughs, and dies. Then it starts up right away on the 2nd try.