My Ford Edge, and my daughter's Escape, both have this feature. You can disable it "per ride" but not permanently unless there's a "secret hidden way" to do this.
Re-start is pretty quick for most driving conditions. You can enable a restart by simply turning the steering wheel (it senses the need to steer, and with no engine RPM the power steering doesn't work so it restarts) or momentarily easing on the brake. In the summer it will restart automatically to keep the climate control working, and I'd imagine the same in the winter, but that would be less of an issue.
The Edge, full of "driver convenience" features such as lane holding, require sensors built into a module mounted on the windscreen behind the rear view mirror. We needed a new windshield recently, and what should have been a $400 windshield was $1,200 because of these parts AND the recalibration necessary.
The only feature I really like is adaptive cruise control. The others? Meh.