Yikes - more than 6 months ago - seems like another lifetime...
I went from being completely absorbed and focused on repairing the frame and replacing the canvas on the soft top, to leaving it behind me when it was all done, so I don't have an immediate answer to your question of how to take it apart. I had to spend a fair amount of time torqueing and twisting the frame to straighten it from the escapades of the previous owner. I have good records of replacing the canvas, but not exploring the details of the frame, unfortunately.
I recall in my conversation with Gernold that he said the hinge was an "eccentric" (my word) hinge, which is why it goes in two steps in erecting and collapsing the soft top (Step 1: pulling it out of the compartment ALL TOGETHER until you stop in the vertical position, before Step 2: proceeding to expand the front of the soft top to the windshield and folding the back part down).
He told me about the unique hinge, and said that this was a common problem, then offered to repair it for $4k + shipping. The answer was easy, and I gave up working on it. I figured it was about 85% ok - I could erect and collapse the top completely, it was straight and taut when up - and that was good enough for me since I keep the soft top stored all the time. It's this eccentricity in the hinge that gets messed up, which is where Gernold is making big money fixing these. I just looked up his website and he now charges $10k for a soft top rebuild. It looks like he doesn't need more work.
I'm no expert, but I recall that I just kept playing with it, opening and closing the frame off the car until I could see how it went together and operated, and that's when I saw the eccentric hinge. I did what I could to strip it down so I could lubricate, and then put everything back together.
While I'm here, a huge shoutout to Mrfatboy, who was an enormous help to me when I first got my car and joined this group. At the time we joked about having a "Gernold capability" on the West Coast, if for no other reason than to have an alternative, price-wise. Based on current pricing, it's getting more and more likely that someone needs to pick up this expertise.
Sorry I couldn't directly answer your question, but if you need any other help with it, don't hesitate to ping me. Good luck.