Are we now worrying about a thief stealing headlights? That's a new one on me...
I'd be more concerned about the neighborhood I'm in if its a thing...or in the case of your grandson, having him anywhere NEAR your Pagoda with a screwdriver! Yikes!
But I digress.
If it's metric security screws one is after, than just get the real thing.
McMaster-Carr has a number of them,
https://www.mcmaster.com/security-fasteners/ in the two-prong drilled spanner you show, as well as in what are called pin-Torx, and pin-hex. Of course today, the "security bits" for such fasteners are very common. I think I bought a set at Harbor Freight years ago when I added some of these to my car wash change machine. The screws are not costly but I think you need to buy them in packs of 25. Plenty of other suppliers as well.
My favorite fastener supplier these days seems to always be
https://www.albanycountyfasteners.com but they don't seem to have metric security in their inventory.