OK, I have a similar twist.
I rarely drive at night. Last night, as I hit a bump, head lights, dash lights, and radio faded. Car idled rough, but I revved it and the lights came back. Generator light did not come on.
Often, during the day, I idle rough at a light, rev it, and all is well.
Alternator is new, battery is good, all connections that I can see are tight...
Should I just change the volt regulator, or is there something more sinister here?