Dear Paul
Interesting your comments, but many reveal that wear does not forgive even electrical parts.
1. The Timed relay (3prong) used on the cold start mechanism of 230/250SL is an aging part. Very expensive to source new if you get lucky to find one NOS. In my opinion, everyone having this start logic should go either : a) replace the 1sec relay off with a modern HELLA cubed relay or b) make someone like me to modify the harness to have the cold start logic of a 280SL which uses components easier to source and that has proven that its cold start logic it’s better. You can hide the HELLA timed off relay inside the housing of the old cylinder time relay.
2. TTS, that is also an aging part. Go for a new one as used on Porsches or w126 and change terminal connections accordingly. A Solid state part surpasses the reliability you can have from an aging bimetallic TTS, and that part from w126 can be sourced NEW.
3. Importance of grounds, also shows on your post. The engine should be correctly grounded in order to have a working CSV ( which in some harness receives only a positive lead , not also a ground). And same story for the TTS. Remember that TTS is activated by the positive T50 Starter signal (rose blue cable lead) and in return gives through the rose cablea NEGATIVE triggering signal which s used by both Cold start relays.
So if the TTS lacks of good grounding it can not pass that ground signal to the cold start relays array.
Best regards
L.Peterssen