I have not looked in the relay, but if you are saying that the sw toggles back and forth [ which I think you do] each time the coil is energized , [86/gnd] , then that would be a mechanical latch system .
If so , that works and one could use this relay for latching the momentary sig form the stalk and feed the coil side of a power relay for the lighting Load .
Let me know when you get that VW one , would ya??