Well three dud alternators and two VRs do point to something else.
I am sure you have gone through the wiring carefully, but just in case do check the exciter circuit which runs through the D+ line on the VR to the charge light on the dash. That exciter circuit (which fires the electromagnets to kick start the alternator) I believe has to have a 72ohm resistance (obtained via the dash incandescent bulb or a parallel 82 ohm resistor if you replaced with LED bulb), and if that shorted or incorrect maybe a source of issues.
In any case perhaps this service guide for the Bosch alternators might be helpful. Good luck.
PS also - and this a long shot though I have seen it - check that the connector to the bottom of the VR is correct. The connector is labeled, and should be orange to DF, black to D- and two red-blue wires into D+. If wrong, then a PO maybe just switched the pins at the alternator end to fix it - you might have missed that. It easy to use a pick to fix the VR end connector. If say the DF and D- switched, the circuit may have sort of worked in the past until the (mechanical) VR failed, a new solid-state VR may be not so forgiving.