From what i can deduce, this looks correct for the relay to bypass the ballast
Wire 1 feeds the coil of the relay, only when cranking, relay energises
Wire 5 from ignition switch feeds +ve to one side of the ballast, during running, ie not cranking, then the ballast is in circuit, and feed the ignition coil on wire 4
Wire 3 connects this same +ve feed to one side of the relay contact, when the relay is energised, (only when cranking) this connects the +ve to the ignition coil on wire 2, thus bypassing the ballast
Did you say you added a jumper wire as well, where was this connected?