Kevin,
My 230 automatic (VIN #018381, what's yours?) does that sometimes, too. I figured out when. The transmission is allowed to shift into 4th around 50 kmph (31 mph). If you hold 2nd gear until that speed, then let up, it will skip 3rd and take 4th. If you accelerate really easily, you will get 3rd before that magic speed for 4th. If you accelerate briskly and hold 2nd until over 60 kmph (37 mph), then you should get 3rd gear (and some power & RPMs) and then 4th when you let up.
Shvegel,
Knowing these details, do you still think it's a linkage issue or could it be a vacuum issue or something else? My car has low compression (120 psi), so I assume low vacuum.
Rodd
Powell, Ohio, USA
1966 230SL, Euro, Auto, Leather, both tops
1994 E420