Regarding the functions here -- I do as Peter mentions. My bookmarked page is the Forum index page. Logged in Forever... I then immediately click the upper right link for unread posts... After reading a few posts, I hit the unread link again and it refreshes -- eliminating those I just read. As a bona fide SL Groupie I have discovered that this is the most efficient way to stay on top of things. (just don't go away for too long!)
And re: the stolen car, I am glad you got the grille back -- and as much as I'd like to see that a-hole electrocuted for touching your car in the first place, I know its tough finding justice in this crazy State. One sort of radical suggestion for securing your car is moving to a smaller town. There are still a few nice ones around. Oh sure we have some crime -- but I'll go out on a limb and say, if you can afford a Pagoda, you will probably have decent surroundings and your possessions will be secure.